Jaime Elizabeth Ann Cesarz Obituary (1982 - 2015)

To view Jaime's Celebration of Life Service, Click Here. To view Jaime's Life Tribute Video, Click Here. From her Family: Way out West, there was this gal, this gal I want to tell you about, a gal by the name of Jaime Cesarz.. At least that's the handle her loving parents gave her.She never had much use for it herself, this CESARZ, called herself the Jaim. JAIM, now that's a name no one would self apply from where I come from. But then there's a whole lot about the Jaim that didn't make a whole lot of sense to me In the parlance of our times she came.now sometimes there's a womanI won't say hero, cuz what's a hero, but sometimes there's a womanand I am talking about the Jaim here sometimes there's a womanwell, she's the woman for her time and place, she's fits right in thereand that's the Jaim in Los Angeles. And even if the Jaim was eccentricand the Jaim was most certainly thatquite possibly the most eccentric in Los Angeles County, but sometimes there's a womansometimes there's a womanWOWlost my train of thought hereAh shootI've done introduced her enough Sometimes there's a woman that exceeds all expectationsshe shows you not on the outside, but on the insidethe quality and strength of her charactersometimes a woman comes along that re-defines things, that forces you to laugh and see the brighter side of this twisted life we livesometimes there's a woman that puts your happiness before hers, sometimes there's a woman that shows you how to live! Now, the Jaim was no stranger to finding solace within her own space, the digital age will kind of do that to anyone, but the Jaim really spent her time entertainingworking the room as it were. Nowwe all have our moments of silencethe Jaim though basked in these momentsshe sort of had this uncanny ability to make you feel close to her story, maybe even a little bad or sorry for hershe would suck you inand then make you laugh harder than you could remember. That was her magic, her je ne sais quoi. It ain't easy putting a label on itor her for that matterbut if you had the pleasure of seeing it for yourself then you would know what I am talking about. Sometimes a woman comes along that has such a deep impact on those around her that they cannot help but feel uplifted by her presencethis was the Jaim's talentand in our day this has become more the exception vice the rulesometimes there's a womanWOW sometimes a woman comes along that bridges folks together, that uses humor of herself to make others feel better about themselves. Sometimes a woman comes along that cares more about the happiness of others than her ownher concerns and worries were your worries and concerns Now much like the DUDE, the Jaim most certainly abided. There are always tough moments in our livesbut up until her dying day, the Jaim used those moments to uplift the people around her. If you hadn't heard from her, it meant she didn't want you to worry, to see her weak, because the Jaim was not weakand if she could not entertain youor if you saw her and things were differentshe was thinking of you, not having negativity, not feeling downit was her gift to you so that you could remember all those happy moments when she was making you laugh. Her only concern was to see you happy, to see you laugh, to see you having funto see you with a big smile on your face! Sometimes a woman comes along that changes thingssometimes there's a woman From her Father: Illness is the night -side of Life, a more onerous citizenship. Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick. Although We All prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged at least for a spell to indentify Ourselves as Citizens of that other place. Cancer begins and ends with people. In the midst of scientific abstraction it is sometimes possible to forget this one basic fact. Doctors treat diseases, but they also treat people, and this precondition of their professional existence sometimes pulls them in two directions at once, We cannot Cure Jaime, Our dream would be just that; if We only had the power of Transforming power of the dream and it's importance to that of Jaim's Journey. We would gladly give Jaime that Treasure. IT IS THROUGH LOVE AND DEATH THAT WE FIND TRUE LOVE. "DISEASES DESPERATE GROWN BY DESPERATE APPLIANCES ARE RELIVED, OR NOT AT ALL" William Shakespere,.HAMLET From Grandma Cesarz's Journal: I asked God to take away my pride, and He said no. He said it was not for him to take away, but for me to give-up. I asked him to make my handicapped child whole, and God said noHe said her spirit is wholeHer body is only temporary. I asked God to grant me patienceand He said no. He said that patience is a by-product of tribulation. If isn't grantedit's earned. I asked God to give me happiness, and God said no. He said He gives blessings, happiness is up to meI asked God to spare me painand God said suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. I asked God to make my spirit grow, and God said noHe said I must grow on my own. But He will prune me to make me fruitfulI asked God to help me love others as much as He loves meGod said Ah! Finally you have an idea.